Ten years ago, we met at an adult social club in Indiana. Within a year, we were married and living a normal, domestic, monogamous life together. Then, in early 2009, after a series of enlightening discoveries and conversations, we decided it was time to get back into the lifestyle. We've been hooked on swinging ever since! WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person We're looking for playmates between 25 and 35. She is a BBW with curves in all the right places. Dark hair, gorgeous tan, hazel eyes. She has one tattoo and five piercings (two below the shoulders). Shaved clean, D&D-free. She's very open to experimenting - there isn't much she hasn't tried, and she's into almost anything IF it's with the right partner (remember the chemistry thing?). She LOVES that long, excruciatingly slow build from sweet flirting - to daring touches - to sensual kisses - to total, unbridled passion. She appreciates a man who REALLY knows how to kiss. On the other hand, when the mood strikes she can appreciate the intensity of a hard and wild romp. She has a pretty dominant personality, but loves to be submissive with the right man. Think you're up to the challenge?

He's tall, mostly fit, light brown hair, blue-green eyes. Trimmed, D&D-free, and cut. He definitely has his share of interests! When trust has been established, he has a strong voyeur/exhibitionist streak. He loves to play with his wife while she plays with others, but sometimes he prefers to just sit back and watch. He's a real sucker for the softness of a woman's skin and the sweetness of a good kiss, but he's equally excited by a woman who lets herself lose control when the time is right.
We REALLY enjoy the practice of bringing another man into the picture. Keep in mind he's straight - he just really likes to share his woman (and either watch or join)!

We're also really starting to warm up to the possibility of playing with another couple in a soft-swap capacity. Again - and we can't stress this enough - when we meet couples we look for people we enjoy hanging out with first and foremost. If we're both comfortable with you, we'll let you know one way or another!

She likes to tease, bringing a man to the point of begging. She's very strong, yet she excels at giving a man just the right amount of control.

He also likes to tease. He gets a huge rush out of bringing a woman just to the brink, backing off, then bringing her there again. Cruel? Maybe, but the resulting climax can be lethal!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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