This is adult friend finder isn't it? The website where people meet for casual sex? Since I've been using this website I've met a small handful of people but trying to shine through the sea of sausages is quite difficult and being typecast when you send a message is a little disparaging. With that said let me give you a bio :) I'm a 29 year old paralegal working towards becoming a state prosecutor. I studied Law at NYU and spent 4 years in the military. I love my job and the wonderful city I live in but what I really love about this city is behind closed doors :). Now I'm in a relationship with a woman I LOVE so I'm not looking for any kind of attachment beyond a FWB. We're in an open relationship and both of us are allowed to explore others separately or as a couple. I enjoy a good night with a movie, cheese and wine and appreciate an intellectual conversation with my peers. Send me a message if you'd like to talk. I don't bite.

My Ideal Person A very chill relaxed woman or couple. Completely comfortable with themselves sexually and always open to new things.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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